Car Shopping with Your Partner

11 Expert Tips for Going to the Dealership with Your Partner

Is it time for you to buy a new car? Have you been Googling things like “buy here pay here car lots near me” to find the best dealer for you? Have you got a certain manufacturer in mind? Well, before you make any decisions – it’s a good idea to talk to your partner about it.

Two heads are better than one. When approaching the car buying experience we suggest a few strategies when going to the dealership with your partner. Car buying advocate, Anne Fleming suggests it really works for you to have your partner join you. After all, they can add support – a second opinion, or be the better voice of reason – a reminder that you that you don’t necessarily need the $3,500 upgrade package.
1. Research the Cars
Know what types of cars you want to buy – make, model, features. Narrow it down to 2 or 3 models with the help of your partner. You might change your mind as well and might be interested in one type of car like a Civic Hatchback but find that you are more interested in something like the Honda SUV range. This will save you time running between dealerships. You might also want to look into car insurance so you have that base covered before you buy your car, since the car your use buy can affect your credit. You might be able to get discount auto insurance for the car you want.
2. Research the Dealerships
Do business with Gay Friendly and women friendly dealerships. Visit and Women-Drivers to read reviews on consumers actual experiences while browsing, buying or servicing a vehicle. Take the Negotiating Test to find out what type of negotiator you are and to receive customized negotiation tips – know your strengths and weaknesses in the dance or negotiating.
3. Take Your Time
Be sure you are buying a car that works for you – functionally, technologically, and financially. Do not fall in love with a car that you cannot afford. Remember that you will typically make payments for 3-5 years; be reassured that it is a payment you can manage for that period of time. Be sure to have your partner remind you of what payment you can reasonably afford.
4. Know When To Shop
Go to the dealership during the day, in nice weather. Shop towards the end of the year or the end of the month. September and October are when the new years models are unveiled, and dealerships are ready and willing to work out deals. Some dealerships impose quotas on their sales people to hit monthly numbers, so going to the dealerships the last week of the month can make a difference. And, shop towards the end of the day. A long day with no sales may prompt a salesperson to offer you a better deal.
5. Be Clear About Your Expectations
Let the dealership know exactly what you are willing to pay and how much time you have to finalize the deal. Even bring in other offers and let them know “the lowest price wins.”Backup what you say with actions.

6. Don’t Sign the Contract “Just to Get it Over With.”

Salespeople are good at wearing buyers down. But if you give in to them, you will lose money. Unsure if you are purchasing the right car, or if the payment is something you can truly afford? Leave the dealership, return home and sleep on it. There is no need to feel guilty about leaving the salesman hanging. It’s your hard-earned money- stay empowered.
7. A Good Deal is Whatever YOU say.
Going to the car dealership is like going to Target or Tiffany’s. You made a purchase and you got a good deal. Why? Because you said so! Don’t listen to other opinions about your exchange and what you paid for. Do remember, in the dance of negotiating, the other guy needs to make money, too.

8. Take It For More Than One Test Drive

Your partner will be able to help notice things in this case that maybe you wouldn’t. He or she can try the passenger seats, see if the door opens wide enough, determine if there is adequate foot or backseat space. If you drive the car during the day, come back and take it for another test drive at night. Make sure that the headlights, interior lights and fog plans work for you. Your road-test minded partner will be able to give you their feedback as well.
9. Get a Vehicle History Report
When buying a Certified Pre Owned or Used Car, make sure to receive a vehicle history report from a reputable source. You will need the Vehicle Identification Number. This comprehensive report can uncover any hidden problems that the dealership did not make you aware of. It also includes mileage history, who has owned the car, how many people have owned the car and where it’s been.
10. Don’t do business with a salesperson who is pushy, disrespectful or intimidating
You do have a choice and you do have the power. If the negotiation process is not working for you – or, if you don’t like the way the salesperson is talking to you, let them know what is not working. Be upfront and ask them to shift their tactics or tone with you. If there is no change in behavior, then, ask the General Sales Manager to assign you a new sales person, or leave the dealership. Perhaps you want to feel more prepared and take up negotiation training, this way you might get a better deal at the end. But if it doesn’t work out for you, there is another dealership that is a better fit and will be happy to work with you.
11. Express Yourself.
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